It’s hard getting dumped but sometimes simply being dumped makes you want him more no matter how wrong he might have treated you. While you’re wallowing in your own self-pity during this lonely period, you might be wondering why you’re not good enough for him. Why he doesn’t love you like you love him? You need to remember that it isn’t always YOU that is the problem. The first step to understanding where it all went wrong is to ask yourself was it right in the first place?
Did he really deserve you? Was your boyfriend always caring, loving, placed your needs ahead of his, treated you with respect and was open and honest with his feelings? If you were dumped out of the blue is it possible there might be someone else? Did you see signs something had gone awry the weeks leading up to the break up? And what do you think was REALLY wrong?
If your boyfriend has started looking elsewhere, perhaps you need to ask yourself whether YOU showed him the love and attention HE needed. If trust was one of the main issues that built up between the two of you, was it a fault on both sides? Or did one simply refuse to let go of the past?
You can not force him to come back to you but if you learn from this experience and grow to love and respect yourself, you have a good chance of not only developing a healthy new relationship but also look forward to a fresh friendship with your ex boyfriend.
It might hurt to be apart from him right now but look to the future and know that true love is still to be found, whether it is with your ex boyfriend or not.
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