How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

You know you've made a mistake and somewhere along the way your once magical relationship came crashing down hard and you're left trying to pick up the pieces by yourself. Through the confusion and mess, the only thing that is certain is that you want to get your ex back. But how exactly do you do that?

In order to gain a new perspective on the relationship you need to first allow some distance to come between you and your ex. This might be less than desirably right now, but allowing time to cool off is important. You do not want to act on panic or emotions right now as those emotions are only the aftermath of the breakup and not exactly something you can trust wholeheartedly.

Do keep in contact with your ex to remind them you are still in their life. You also need to let them see you have changed and how you have changed. The only way to do that this is if you are still in constant contact with them.

Understand first of all why the relationship failed and what you can do to change that. Know that relationships take two to make them work, so after you allow yourself to change for the better, you need to speak with your ex and find out what it is they really want. Sometimes they simply don't want to try again for reasons of their own and you simply need to respect that.

Do try to go on with your life. It is not healthy to obsess over an ex on a daily basis. Try to involve other activities into your life and know that you will think of your ex occasionally but with time your wounds will heal. This might be counter-productive in getting your ex back but in fact this is merely the first step. Look after yourself first and know that your ex boyfriend wants to see you can survive without them.

To find out more about your opening moves to getting your ex back, check out Get Your Ex Back and around the middle there is a video that outlines exactly what you should do.