Sunday, August 24, 2008

When Ex-Boyfriends Try To Make You Jealous

Is your ex-boyfriend deliberately trying to make you jealous? Perhaps flaunting a new girl in front of your face and doing things to hurt you on purpose?

Are you having a difficult time remaining in no contact and not sure how to take it anymore?

No one said it was going to be easy and your ex-boyfriend is not making things any easier on you but does this mean they want you back?

Well, first if they’re deliberately trying to get revenge of some kind, they’re pretty immature in the first place and you probably should move on from them anyway.

If you still want them back however, you should really ask yourself why you want to be with someone who treats you so poorly?

Even if you did do something to deserve it, immature behaviour is a sign that someone hasn’t grown up yet and hence won’t appreciate a real deep and meaningful relationship; one that you probably want.

The best thing to do is to ignore their actions and move on as if you’re the MATURE one. Remember you don’t want to sink to their level. Acting immature will only make you look just as bad as them and if you want to go down that route, then you get everything you deserve.

Saturday, August 16, 2008

When Your Ex Boyfriend Won’t Return Your Calls

Ever been in this situation? I know you want your ex back and you really want to call him to set things straight. You miss him dearly and want to see how he is doing, unfortunately he has not been returning your calls and you are getting frustrated. How can you get him to at least hear you out one last time?

First of all, the guy clearly wants to be left alone, at least for a week. He may be busy or he may be tossing up what he’s going to say. He doesn’t want to mislead you in anyway. Sometimes they are just trying to move on themselves.

There’s one thing you can do and it’s to STOP CALLING HIM. Yes I know it’s hard and you want to share your stories with someone, but you just have to suck it up and wait until he comes around himself.

Don’t just wait around expecting him to call all day. Go out and make yourself busy. Have enough planned that you’re getting your mind off your ex for the majority of the day.

Don’t try to spy on him through facebook or myspace or ask his friends nonchalantly about whether they have seen or heard from him. Word will get back to him and its even less of a reason for him to contact you. Stay out of his way and get on with your own life for now. Eventually he will come around and it’s usually much sooner than you think.

For more tips check out: How to Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back.