Saturday, April 25, 2009
Break ups can bring out the worst out people, so remember to be nice. That might seem obvious however, if there were plenty of arguing and insults thrown about prior to the break up, tension between the two fo you will be high. Despite which side the negativity is coming from, put all that aside and learn to be pleasant around him.
Resist the urge to...
Reminding him of your worst side will definitely not make him want to start running back into your arms. That means, resist any temptation to nag, complain or act unpleasant. The more pleasant you can make each encounter you have together after your break up, the more he'll want to see you again in the future. The last thing you want is to drive him away, even if you might have to go against your feelings to be civil.
Remember, the past is in the past and there's little you can do about it now. Admiting this fact to your ex boyfriend will help put things into perspective for both of you. It will also show your ex boyfriend that you aren't going to resort to the problems of the past and you're willing to work on issuesfor the future.
Don't blame him or the past, let things be and remember what you're doing this for.
Other questions you might wonder are:
Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a girlfriend?
This makes your situation slightly more difficult because he is with someone else and you must respect his wishes for now. That new relationship will be first priority and the more you try to get in the way, the further you'll only push him away. Being nice and pleasant is crucial to making things work out between the two of you.
Can I get my ex boyfriend back by through trickery?
If you think you can win your ex boyfriend back through deception and trickery, think again. Even the most innocent lie or exaggeration could backfire terribly later down the track. To receive the best result you must learn to practice honesty! Your intentions must be true and you only want the best for him and the relationship.
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Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Christmas is fast approaching, as well as New Years; times when you used to spend with your ex, now you have to look forward to being without. But is that such a bad thing? The holidays is a great time to spend with your closest family and friends, but instead of dwelling on an ex (as you might want to), use this time to get that make over you always wanted, or take the time to actually give yourself a card this Christmas.
Been saving all year for something and haven't had a chance to spend? Now's the time to spend a little on yourself and just enjoy your own company. You certainly don't need to wait until Christmas to be given gifts.
Remember as the year comes to an end, new opportunities awaits in 2009. Think about the things you want to accomplish in 2009 and get excited in thinking about whats to come.
You might want to give your ex a present, but unless you're friends, I would not think too much about this, unless its a simple card. Best not to worry about it unless he sends you something first.
Enjoy the holidays with new hope in your heart and be strong!
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Making your boyfriend jealous might work for some but it is far risky and the consequences are not worth it in my opinion. You might get your ex's attention at first but once he is back with you, do you think he will stick around? Most likely not. There is little point to get your ex back via dishonest ways as this could and would poison your relationship further in the future.
If you want to get him back and build a sustainable relationship, you need to start by being honest and put aside the game playing. If honestly doesn't work out well, try to improve on yourself and move on... although that won't necessarily make your ex begging you to come back, you'll be surprised how effective it can be to get your boyfriend thinking about you. It's a good step in the right direction.
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Sunday, October 19, 2008
If you've been worried and wondering if it's possible to get your boyfriend back, then rest assured that's a big "YES". To get your boyfriend back, you'll need to realize that things are slightly different now then it was when you were together. You won't be able to persuade him back by begging or pleading. That might have worked in the past, but if your boyfriend has left, you'll need to try a different approach altogether.
The best thing to do at this time is to realize that you will be emotional and do things that you wouldn't normally do. Take a deep breath and consider why the relationship failed this time around. If you want him back, there's little point in persuading if you don't know why he left in the first place.
Know that you'll need to do some changes if you want the relationship to move forward. The only way that will happen is if you look within yourself and see if there are elements you are not happy with yourself. If you have let certain areas of your life slip away recently and you have been putting off dealing with them. Now is the time to deal with them.
Your relationship ending isn't the end of the world, and if you put all that energy into feeling like the victim, you will get yourself into situations where you ARE the victim. Take control of your life starting from now and realize you don't need someone else to make you happy.
Give you and your boyfriend some time apart and learn to appreciate what you have right now!
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Sunday, August 24, 2008
Is your ex-boyfriend deliberately trying to make you jealous? Perhaps flaunting a new girl in front of your face and doing things to hurt you on purpose?
Are you having a difficult time remaining in no contact and not sure how to take it anymore?
No one said it was going to be easy and your ex-boyfriend is not making things any easier on you but does this mean they want you back?
Well, first if they’re deliberately trying to get revenge of some kind, they’re pretty immature in the first place and you probably should move on from them anyway.
If you still want them back however, you should really ask yourself why you want to be with someone who treats you so poorly?
Even if you did do something to deserve it, immature behaviour is a sign that someone hasn’t grown up yet and hence won’t appreciate a real deep and meaningful relationship; one that you probably want.
The best thing to do is to ignore their actions and move on as if you’re the MATURE one. Remember you don’t want to sink to their level. Acting immature will only make you look just as bad as them and if you want to go down that route, then you get everything you deserve.
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Ever been in this situation? I know you want your ex back and you really want to call him to set things straight. You miss him dearly and want to see how he is doing, unfortunately he has not been returning your calls and you are getting frustrated. How can you get him to at least hear you out one last time?
First of all, the guy clearly wants to be left alone, at least for a week. He may be busy or he may be tossing up what he’s going to say. He doesn’t want to mislead you in anyway. Sometimes they are just trying to move on themselves.
There’s one thing you can do and it’s to STOP CALLING HIM. Yes I know it’s hard and you want to share your stories with someone, but you just have to suck it up and wait until he comes around himself.
Don’t just wait around expecting him to call all day. Go out and make yourself busy. Have enough planned that you’re getting your mind off your ex for the majority of the day.
Don’t try to spy on him through facebook or myspace or ask his friends nonchalantly about whether they have seen or heard from him. Word will get back to him and its even less of a reason for him to contact you. Stay out of his way and get on with your own life for now. Eventually he will come around and it’s usually much sooner than you think.
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Sunday, July 20, 2008
If you have just broken up, the best thing to do is to hold off immediate contact. As hard as it might be, it probably won’t do you a whole lot of good to start bugging your ex right now.
If however, your relationship ended WITHOUT closure and there are things you MUST say. Understandably it is best to give them a quick call or leave a quick message to get out what it is you need to get out. However, make it brief and after you’ve said your piece, leave it at that and hold off contact for at least a month or so.
The time period will vary depending on what your ex has said, but generally if your ex is not the one contacting you first, it means they are NOT ready to talk to you yet. It is perhaps best to not contact them at all, but instead wait to see whether they will contact you.
Why is this no contact period important?
You need to allow the relationship to have a ‘break’. Don’t mistake this to mean this is the absolute end and if they don’t hear from you they will forget about you. Far from it!
You want your ex to miss you. This time apart will not only allow them to see what they are missing, they will start to evaluate the relationship differently. Whether you believe that or not, this will be true no matter what you might hear from their friends or family.
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