Sunday, July 20, 2008

Get Boyfriend Back: Should You Contact Him?

When the question of whether you should contact your ex or not comes up, you might be wondering what is the best time to contact your ex.

If you have just broken up, the best thing to do is to hold off immediate contact. As hard as it might be, it probably won’t do you a whole lot of good to start bugging your ex right now.

If however, your relationship ended WITHOUT closure and there are things you MUST say. Understandably it is best to give them a quick call or leave a quick message to get out what it is you need to get out. However, make it brief and after you’ve said your piece, leave it at that and hold off contact for at least a month or so.

The time period will vary depending on what your ex has said, but generally if your ex is not the one contacting you first, it means they are NOT ready to talk to you yet. It is perhaps best to not contact them at all, but instead wait to see whether they will contact you.

Why is this no contact period important?

You need to allow the relationship to have a ‘break’. Don’t mistake this to mean this is the absolute end and if they don’t hear from you they will forget about you. Far from it!

You want your ex to miss you. This time apart will not only allow them to see what they are missing, they will start to evaluate the relationship differently. Whether you believe that or not, this will be true no matter what you might hear from their friends or family.

For more information go to: Should I Keep in Contact With My Ex

19 comments:

hannah said...

Thanks a lot for your advice guys, it helped me a lot, I went to www.saveabreakup.com and followed their step by step instructions and it worked perfectly, now me and my girlfriend are back together.

Mrs Leisha said...

What a beautiful and wonderful testimony!!!
My name is KATE BREWSTER from UK i was in a very serous problems two years ago and i have sick for help many times until i found a man on net who help me.Well, i was in a very serous relationship that two years ago, this relationship was so tight and we promise each other know body on earth can ever tear us apart we were bout happy with each other my parents heat him so much that they don't even want him around me they even drove me out of the house just because of him my parents this own me i have know were to go except his house i move to his house and we were bout together our relationship was going on fine, so one day something happen he brought a beautiful young girl into the house to help us i was not really happy about it but i just cope with it and everything was still going on fine, something happen again so my nabob ask me if i have not been seeing what is happening in my house between my boyfriend and the new girl? really i desired to find out and i discover that my guy was still dating the girl on my behalf under the same roof so when i try to ask my boyfriend JOHN SIRRAH he say to me if he does not have the right to do what so ever he likes that we are not yet married he really broke my heart or doled i was still in his house my nabob ask me if am going to continue like this forever that there is a man who can help me makes my boyfriend stop cheating on me and to love me as my heart so desire my nabob ask me if am ready to do it i agreed so she told me to contact the man email address called(CAROLOVESPELLTEMPLE) i contacted him and i told him what happen he told me some things that i will have to do to get everything secured with my boyfriend and after i have see the result within the next 7 days then i will come and please the oracle for a job well done so it really come to pass and i was very happy,and to cult everything shout me and my boyfriend was now very happy together as before.
So if you are in any situation concerning love issues troubles, or any order things please contact this email address (CAROLOVESPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM) he is there
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THANKS...

mary said...

My name is Mrs. Max,From USA ,and
I’m happily married with a lovely husband and
three children.I had a very big problem with my
husband few months ago,to the extent that he
even packed his things away from our house. He
left I and and my kids for almost 5 months,and i
tried all my possible best and effort to bring him
back.l discussed it with a very good friend of
mine,and he gave me an advice concerning a
spell caster, that he is the only one that can
handle my situations and problem,that he’s
always ready and able to do anything related to
spell casting and helping of the needy, pleas
every one i would like you all to contact him
with his email address,which is as
follows.”Kpeledesolutiontemple @gmail.com". I
never believed in spell casting,but My friend
convinced me and i had no choice than to follow
my friend advice,because i never dreamed of
loosing my lovely Husband. And i contacted him
with his email address,and i discussed with him
all my problems and worries and so
surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my husband
back a day after. I didn't believed Him, until
when i got home,the next day,my husband
called me to inform me that he is coming back
home…..So Amazing!! That’s how i got my back
through spell casting and our relationship was
stronger than ever. One of the price i was asked
to pay was to tell it to the people around me that
problems like this,can always be solved by
awani. So! my advice to you out there is to visit
this same E-mail address,and tell him your
problems too,if you are in any condition related
to love issue or getting your ex back or and
problem at all, pleas Contact him and have a happy
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GeorginA said...


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cell +2348155425481
Roland Marchoni, Napels, Italy

Unknown said...

my name is Jason i was in the us army and went to Afghanistan leaving my wife and two kids Was away from home for 2 years when i returned my wife told me she was no longer interested in the marriage that if she could survive for 2 years without me the marriage is meaningless.leaving home for 2 years was not easy but not having a family when i came back was more difficult i pleaded continuously with her for 2 years even left the army just to convince her but all my attempt to get her back failed. This faithful day was about to sign a friend guest book when i saw a post about a spell caster at first i laughed but took the email address and phone number after 2days something inside of me just asked me to contact him so i did he asked for her full name and her picture which i sent he told me she was going to call me after 48 hrs to my surprise she called my even before the 48 hrs elapsed and said he was wrong to have left me and said she wanted me back .just using this testimony to encourage other men and even women to contact this great spell caster for good luck spell,marital and relationship problems,wining lottery etc this is his direct contact . templeoflove1@yahoo.com

I finally got the one i love to break up with the woman that took her from me. She is my friend but she betrayed me and took him away from me and she stole him from me, every time i saw them together it hurt me so bad inside i wanted to cry, but finally after using your service to cast a spell upon them 2 to break them up, so i get what rightfully deserves to be mine, i cant believe this actually worked thank you so much for giving me a chance thank you templeoflove1@yahoo.com

Unknown said...


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Unknown said...

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Anonymous said...


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Unknown said...

After being in relationship with him for 3 years,he broke up with me,
I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted
him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with
everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to
someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell
caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type
that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the
spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be
okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he
cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex
called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that
he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return
to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was
how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made
promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem or child
problem I would be of
help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful
spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from
all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell
caster, his email is dromoselspellcaster@gmail.com you can email him if you
need
his assistance in your relationship or anything. he we be ready to help you.
self regard sofia.

Unknown said...

After being in relationship with him for 3 years,he broke up with me,
I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted
him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with
everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to
someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell
caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type
that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the
spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be
okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he
cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex
called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that
he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return
to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was
how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made
promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem or child
problem I would be of
help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful
spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from
all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell
caster, his email is dromoselspellcaster@gmail.com you can email him if you
need
his assistance in your relationship or anything. he we be ready to help you.
self regard sofia.

Unknown said...

My name is Nickolas William
i am from USA, I have been suffering from HIV/Aids for over 8 years now, i have spent all my money to make sure i get healthy all day, and live happily life, last month Wednesday May 20th 2015, I came in contact with a traditional doctor on internet who is called Dr Ogwua who has help much people to cure their aids disease, firstly i taught it was a scam or joke until i contacted him ” at his via email:Ogwuaspiritualspellhome@mail.com ” and he reply me within 24hr and said that if i
am ready to get rid of my disease, i told him yes, and he collected my details and told me that
his temple is the final point to my problem.with the way he approach me and he also encourage and also advice me,the way he advice me i was so happy because no body has even advice me in life in that manner.we keep on talking on mail and call,he told me that he has a medication that he will send for me that if i use it for 3 days that my problem will be over.as soon as he was done with the preparation of the medication he inform me that he is done with the preparation of the medication.i never still believe him until he asked for my address. 3 days later he send the
medication to me and i use it as i was instructed. guess what happen after using it i called him
and tell him that i am through using it he told me to go for medical check up and the doctor
confirm it that i am now HIV negative.i am sharing this testimony to people who have being scam before or have that believe that there is no HIV cure,that with the help of Doctor Ogwua that your problem are over and solved.my friends and families who left me before run back to me. I now found out that God in Heaven is using this man to bless and heal us , he is indeed a great man and
powerful Doctor, again I say to you that God Almighty will uplift you and your great temple.
Please i will sincerely advice all HIV patients to contact this great powerful man called Dr Ogwua for your solutions now his via email address is:
Ogwuaspiritualspellhome@hotmail.com he will help you on your HIV problems never you give up until you are free from this deadly disease because your health is your wealth…..email: Dr Ogwua at:Ogwuaspiritualspellhome@hotmail.com OR Call him on his phone number:+23481567594231244.
HE IS ALSO SPECIALIZE ON FOLLOWING
1 LOVE SPELL
2 SPELL TO GET YOUR EX BACK
3 CANCER CURE
4 SKIN DISEASE
5 KIDNEY PROBLEM
6 HERPES
7 PENIS ENLARGEMENT AND REDUCTION
8 BREAST ENLARGEMENT AND REDUCTION
9 FAT AND THIN CONTROL
10 ULCER CURE
11 DEPRESSION
if you are having the following problem kindly contact Dr Ogwua and all your problems will be
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Dr Paul said...

My name is Mrs. Jason Destiny,From USA ,and I’m
happily married with a lovely husband and two
children.I had a very big problem with my husband
few months ago,to the extent that he even packed his
things away from our house. He left I and and my kids
for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best
and effort to bring him back.I discussed it with a very
good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice
concerning a spell caster, that he is the only one that
can handle my situations and problem,that he’s
always ready and able to do anything related to spell
casting and helping of the needy, Pls every every one i
would like you all to contact him with his email
address,which is as
follows.lovethlovespell@yahoo.com I
never believed in spell casting,but My friend
convinced me and i had no choice than to follow my
friend advice,because i never dreamed of loosing my
lovely Husband. And i contacted him with his email
address,and i discussed with him all my problems and
worries and so surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my
husband back a day after. I didn't believed Him, until
when i got home,the next day,my husband called me
to inform me that he is coming back home…..So
Amazing!! That’s how i got my husband back through spell
casting and our relationship was stronger than ever.
One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to the
people around me that problems like this,can always
be solved by Dr Paul. So! my advice to you out
there is to visit this same E-mail address,and tell him
your problems too,if you are in any condition related
to love issue or getting your ex back or and problem
at all, pls Contact him and have a happy life. you can
contact him via email (lovethlovespell@yahoo.com)
or call him +2348101733265

Dr Paul said...

Am Favour my husband broke up with me about two weeks ago, he didn’t give me a reason why, he just told me that he wanted to be honest and that he didn't love me anymore, I loved him so much but he does is to travel with different girls to unknown destination, I was all over the internet trying to find who could help me out with my situation but no results at all or little signs, I was about to give up, then luckily I found Otugbelovespelltemple1@gmail.com in the internet, that this spell helped a woman who had the same issue as mine, when I contacted Dr Alaba , he said he will help me and just as he said, I received a call from my husband begging to reunite with me again, I accepted him and things really changed he stopped his bad habit, We came back together and I was astounded because so many say they are the best but can't back it. but Dr Alaba really surprised me with his spell, whoever need a spell caster that can work for you and bring back your lover should call +2348071634974.

Jessica L. Smith said...

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gavin lee said...

i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in June last year on a business summit i meet a man called doctor azeke who was said to have gone everywhere learning and teaching spells in india, china, turkey and others, he's so powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my lover. looking for some one to love, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job i m now happy & a living testimony cos the woman i wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 4 year i really loved her. but her mother was against me and her. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him at first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try and in 5 days when i returned to texas my girlfriend (is now my wife) she called me by herself and came to me apologizing. everything had been settled with his mom and family. i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid. i got a new job and our lives became much better in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help his email address: drazeke200@gmail.com or you can whatsapp call him at +2348115381248

Flora shawn said...

My name is Sophia i live in USA i am a Lesbian and just 7 months ago my lesbian girlfriend broke up with me and ever since then i have been trying to get her back to love me again but all my effort to get her back did not work, i hardly sleep because i love her so much and i could not afford to loose her so i had to contact a powerful spell caster and doctor called doctor azeke whom i heard was specialized in helping people in this kind of situation.To cut my story short i contacted doctor azeke and he promised to help me get her back to me in just 4 days and at exactly 4 days she called me on phone for the first time since she left me, i was happy and knew it has started working and just after few days after she fell in love with me again and promise never to live me again. I am so happy today that my lesbian girlfriend is back again and i never could have get her back my self if not for the doctors spell so i am advising if you are finding it difficult to get your ex girlfriend or boyfriend, wife or husband back getting your lesbian or gay friend back in your life, you need to contact him and i am 100% sure he will be happy to help you all out. this is his contact info email: drazeke200@gmail.com          whatsapp : +2348115381248

albert said...

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Email: doctorvoke@gmail.com
Whatsapp him +1(773) 349-2820.