Christmas is fast approaching, as well as New Years; times when you used to spend with your ex, now you have to look forward to being without. But is that such a bad thing? The holidays is a great time to spend with your closest family and friends, but instead of dwelling on an ex (as you might want to), use this time to get that make over you always wanted, or take the time to actually give yourself a card this Christmas.
Been saving all year for something and haven't had a chance to spend? Now's the time to spend a little on yourself and just enjoy your own company. You certainly don't need to wait until Christmas to be given gifts.
Remember as the year comes to an end, new opportunities awaits in 2009. Think about the things you want to accomplish in 2009 and get excited in thinking about whats to come.
You might want to give your ex a present, but unless you're friends, I would not think too much about this, unless its a simple card. Best not to worry about it unless he sends you something first.
Enjoy the holidays with new hope in your heart and be strong!
