Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Can Playing Hard to Get, Bring Your Boyfriend Back?

Playing hard to get can have its place in the dating world, and it can work better than the opposite, which is chasing after your ex without shame. The truth is, if you want long-term success with your ex, it's best not to play hard to get in the hopes of bringing him back.

Why?

Making your boyfriend jealous might work for some but it is far risky and the consequences are not worth it in my opinion. You might get your ex's attention at first but once he is back with you, do you think he will stick around? Most likely not. There is little point to get your ex back via dishonest ways as this could and would poison your relationship further in the future.

If you want to get him back and build a sustainable relationship, you need to start by being honest and put aside the game playing. If honestly doesn't work out well, try to improve on yourself and move on... although that won't necessarily make your ex begging you to come back, you'll be surprised how effective it can be to get your boyfriend thinking about you. It's a good step in the right direction.

Also check out: How to Apologize Effectively to Your Ex

20 comments:

Sharon said...

It is hard for me to live without a boy friend. I always wanted my ex boyfriend back with love. I think it's good if we understand each other to work out our relationship.

hannah said...

Thanks a lot for your advice guys, it helped me a lot, I went to www.saveabreakup.com and followed their step by step instructions and it worked perfectly, now me and my girlfriend are back together.

Unknown said...

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Barbara said...

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gavin lee said...

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Albert said...


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