Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Can Playing Hard to Get, Bring Your Boyfriend Back?

Playing hard to get can have its place in the dating world, and it can work better than the opposite, which is chasing after your ex without shame. The truth is, if you want long-term success with your ex, it's best not to play hard to get in the hopes of bringing him back.

Why?

Making your boyfriend jealous might work for some but it is far risky and the consequences are not worth it in my opinion. You might get your ex's attention at first but once he is back with you, do you think he will stick around? Most likely not. There is little point to get your ex back via dishonest ways as this could and would poison your relationship further in the future.

If you want to get him back and build a sustainable relationship, you need to start by being honest and put aside the game playing. If honestly doesn't work out well, try to improve on yourself and move on... although that won't necessarily make your ex begging you to come back, you'll be surprised how effective it can be to get your boyfriend thinking about you. It's a good step in the right direction.

Also check out: How to Apologize Effectively to Your Ex

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Is It Possible to Get Your Boyfriend Back? Steps to Get Him Back For Good

Get Your Boyfriend Back - Steps to Get Him Back

If you've been worried and wondering if it's possible to get your boyfriend back, then rest assured that's a big "YES". To get your boyfriend back, you'll need to realize that things are slightly different now then it was when you were together. You won't be able to persuade him back by begging or pleading. That might have worked in the past, but if your boyfriend has left, you'll need to try a different approach altogether.

The best thing to do at this time is to realize that you will be emotional and do things that you wouldn't normally do. Take a deep breath and consider why the relationship failed this time around. If you want him back, there's little point in persuading if you don't know why he left in the first place.

Know that you'll need to do some changes if you want the relationship to move forward. The only way that will happen is if you look within yourself and see if there are elements you are not happy with yourself. If you have let certain areas of your life slip away recently and you have been putting off dealing with them. Now is the time to deal with them.

Your relationship ending isn't the end of the world, and if you put all that energy into feeling like the victim, you will get yourself into situations where you ARE the victim. Take control of your life starting from now and realize you don't need someone else to make you happy.

Give you and your boyfriend some time apart and learn to appreciate what you have right now!

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